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Alexis K. Barker (nee Dykan), on September 4, 2018, of Washington Twp. Age 54. Devoted mother of Nicholaus J. and Zachary A. Barker. Dear sister of Paula Zeller. Cherished friend of Frank Barker. Alexis Barker, a carer, a lover, a sister, but most importantly a mother. Someone who devoted her existence to providing for herContinue Reading
Alexis K. Barker (nee Dykan), on September 4, 2018, of Washington Twp. Age 54. Devoted mother of Nicholaus J. and Zachary A. Barker. Dear sister of Paula Zeller. Cherished friend of Frank Barker.
Alexis Barker, a carer, a lover, a sister, but most importantly a mother. Someone who devoted her existence to providing for her children. She woke up each morning looking to put smiles on people’s faces. This motivation stemmed from her wanting to be someone her children could learn from and I think she has done that in more ways than she could have imagined. She never let an opportunity go by to let you now that she cared. She made it her mission to let you know your value and importance. My brother and I would not be the men we are today without the love we received and the lessons we were taught. Her time was precious and that made every moment together special. 54 years may not seem like a lot, but it left us with enough great memories to last a lifetime.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend her viewing Monday 6:00 – 8:00 pm at the Egizi Funeral Home, 119 Ganttown Road, Washington Twp. Funeral Service 8:00 PM.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Alexis’ memory to the Purple Heart Service Foundation, Inc., 7008 Little River Turnpike, P.O. Box 49, Annandale, VA 22003. Memories and condolences may be shared with the family at www.egizifuneral.com.
“A Life Well Lived
Is Worth Remembering
Josie
left a message on September 12, 2018:
Time nor distance can change the lasting impression my dear friend Alexis left on me. From the moment I met her on the first day of our sophomore year in German class, she was to become a good friend and part of so many fun and enlightening times in my life.
Whether we were "going clubbing", having lunch at her home in Olney with her sweet and funny mom, meeting at Temple during a break, or heading out to celebrate Halloween with her costumed and made up as the BEST werewolf I had ever seen, it was fun and easy with her. I'll remember all the love, friendship, support and fun times she shared with me during our time together.
I know becoming a wife and mother was a special time for her, and she was determined to do all she could to be the best mom to Nick and Zack. It seemed evident to me that she tried to be the best person she could be and do the best for those she loved in her life.
To Nick and Zack, Frank, and Paula and Christine and all her family, I extend my deepest sympathies for your loss however knowing that once the sadness passes, and the pain recedes, all those wonderful times, memories and her love will be with you always.
Alexis, I'll always miss and love you, and wish you blessings, peace and joy on your new journey.
Your friend, Josie
DOREEN DISALVATORE
left a message on September 10, 2018:
IN MEMORY OF ALEXIS. MAY YOU FIND HAPPINESS AND ETERNAL LIFE WITH OUR GOOD LORD
DOREEN DISALVATORE
left a message on September 10, 2018:
I AM SO VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR MOTHER'S LOSS. I WAS ONLY FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO BE IN HER COMPANY ON A FEW OCCASIONS. I WISH I HAD MORE TIME WITH HER. I AM HOPING THE LORD COMFORTS YOU DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME AND YOU CAN FIND PEACE. LET ME KNOW IF THERE IS ANYTHING I OR REMO CAN DO TO HELP EASE YOUR BURDENS.
DOREEN DISALVATORE
Joan Sickler
left a message on September 10, 2018:
My deepest condolences to her family.
Stacey Beard
left a message on September 10, 2018:
Alexis....True friends are a gift from God. I am so blessed to call you my friend. I will miss your funny laugh and smile. I know you in the presence of our Lord and Savior now - and at peace.
Nick and Zach - God loves you. Lean into Him at this time. ‘Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times in every way. The Lord be with you all.’ 2 Thessalonians 3:16
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Gerri Bukata-Hasapes
left a message on September 9, 2018:
So sorry to hear this. My condolences to the family. Alexis is in my prayers.
Kathy Grier
left a message on September 9, 2018:
Rest in peace my friend. Still so unbelievable that you're gone. Our little circle of friends has been broken. Although you'll be terribly missed, I know your burden and worries have been lifted and you are at peace.
God bless you. Love you ?
Rachel Misci
left a message on September 9, 2018:
Alexis wasn’t just my co worker. She was a second mother to me. She always knew how to lift my spirits up and anyone else’s for that matter. She was a kind caring loving woman and she will be truly missed. It’s still so shocking and heartbreaking. She was there for me when my grandfather passed earlier this year. I just can’t believe she’s gone, knowing I’ll never see her at work again... it’s never going to be the same. Nick and Zach, your mother was an amazing and loving woman. Prayers to her family. I love you Alexis. ❤️
Jess Lauriello
left a message on September 8, 2018:
Sending all of my love and support to Zach, Nick and Frank during this time. May Alexis guide them daily through life knowing she is there always. I will sincerely miss Alexis because she would light up a room when walking in. she was one of my “moms” at work and always made sure people were taken care of. we had many conversations that will stay close to my heart. She was loved by many and will stay in my heart forever.
Gina
left a message on September 8, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Gina lit a candle
Franne Weaver
left a message on September 8, 2018:
You were a lovely woman with whom I had the pleasure of living across the street from until I moved 12/03/03. I continued to run into Nick and Zach at school or Creanies but I missed seeing your sweet face. When I saw you at Shoprite when you first started working there I was so glad that I would be able to see you whenever I went food shopping. We would always hug and catch up on life. I’m so sorry for the loves of your life, your sons. Such a loss of a wonderful mother and person! Rest In Peace Alexis. You will be missed!
Donna, Andrew & Michael Gallagher
left a message on September 8, 2018:
Nick and Zach, We were saddened to hear about your mom. Your mom was a great lady and was always your #1 fan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
Cherie Buziak Santiago
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Nick and Zac, your mom will be tremendously missed and our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to you. Your mom loved and adored you both. I'll treasure the memories with you and her always.
Alexis was more than a cousin, she was a friend. She was creative, smart and witty. We laughed at the silliest things through our growing up years, weekends spent down the shore, sharing motherhood events with you boys - and life in general.
She truly will be missed - may the wonderful remembrances of her comfort you through this time. ...love you guys.
Diane and Charlie Durr
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Nick and Zack,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you on the passing of your mother. Keeping you in our prayers,
and trusting that
God will bring you comfort
in the days ahead.
May it help you
to know friends
are thinking of you
and remembering you
in their prayers.
Your dad and your aunt also have our warmest sympathy.
Diane and Charlie
Diane Sharkey
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Alexis was a wonderful friend who gave the best sincere hugs! She loved her boys more than anything! She is now in the comforts of God’s home with her parents who she adored! She truly will be missed but never forgotten!
Mike Panarello
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Alexis will be dearly missed by family and friends who cared about her
Cindy Spence
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Dear Nick, Zach, Paula, and Frank, Your mother, sister, and friend was so dear to me and was one of my closest friends. She loved all of you so much. We will miss her greatly. May God bless your hearts with His healing hand and give you peace that she is now in heaven.
Heaven. Alexis and I talked about heaven and salvation through Jesus Christ, and I am sure she placed her life in His hands. She is now safe in the arms of Jesus.
Terry Byrd
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Nick & Zack your Mom was a great lady and friend who will truly be missed. Rest in peace Alexis, you fought a good fight!! ??????
Maryann rich
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Alexis was such a kind person always had a kind word to say to u and knew if u just needed a hug I will miss her as a co worker and friend she loved her family so much and really missed her mom I no her mom was waiting for her with open arms RIP Alexis ??
Martina DelRocini
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Dear Nick, Zach & Frank,
Your Mom was a truly remarkable Mother & friend. Our hearts are heavy with sorrow for her loss but we have wonderful memories with you and her.
May the Lord help you through this very difficult time and may Her love for you always provide comfort through these difficult times.
Your friends always,
Jim, Marti, James & Nick DelRocini
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Lisa Hershock Wiley
left a message on September 6, 2018:
RIP Alexis....I grew up on the same street with the Dykan' s. Alexis is fondly remembered.
Carol Watts
left a message on September 6, 2018:
Alexis was a warm caring person that I enjoy working with.Her love for her sons was wonderful.I'll never forget one day we where so busy and Alexis had this piece of paper with stickers on it...She would give us one to put on our badge to brighten up our day....and it did.May she fine peace being with her Mom and may God Bless her for being a very kind person.
Steven Sonsini
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Steven Sonsini lit a candle
Lillian Watkins
left a message on September 6, 2018:
Heartbroken. I will remember Alexis as a mother who loved her boys and a woman with a big heart.She was so proud and beaming of pride when she talked about them. Her son Zachary came into work one day to visit and her smile was contagious . Alexis always was concerned for others, if you were having an off day or not feeling your best, she would pick that right up and ask you what is wrong and is there anything she could do for you. Always had time for you. Work will never be the same without her. I will deeply miss her and knowing she is reunited with her mom brings some peace to the sadness and loss. Rest In Peace Alexis.
Jessica Sequinot
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Jessica Sequinot lit a candle
Cheryl Hendricks
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Cheryl Hendricks lit a candle
Kelsea Zawoiski
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Kelsea Zawoiski lit a candle
Diane Sharkey
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Diane Sharkey lit a candle
Judy
left a message on September 6, 2018:
Alexis and I were coworkers I was very shocked and saden of her death she always had a kind word and witty sense of humor she will be missed my condolences to her family !
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Josie
left a message on September 12, 2018:
Time nor distance can change the lasting impression my dear friend Alexis left on me. From the moment I met her on the first day of our sophomore year in German class, she was to become a good friend and part of so many fun and enlightening times in my life.
Whether we were "going clubbing", having lunch at her home in Olney with her sweet and funny mom, meeting at Temple during a break, or heading out to celebrate Halloween with her costumed and made up as the BEST werewolf I had ever seen, it was fun and easy with her. I'll remember all the love, friendship, support and fun times she shared with me during our time together.
I know becoming a wife and mother was a special time for her, and she was determined to do all she could to be the best mom to Nick and Zack. It seemed evident to me that she tried to be the best person she could be and do the best for those she loved in her life.
To Nick and Zack, Frank, and Paula and Christine and all her family, I extend my deepest sympathies for your loss however knowing that once the sadness passes, and the pain recedes, all those wonderful times, memories and her love will be with you always.
Alexis, I'll always miss and love you, and wish you blessings, peace and joy on your new journey.
Your friend, Josie
DOREEN DISALVATORE
left a message on September 10, 2018:
IN MEMORY OF ALEXIS. MAY YOU FIND HAPPINESS AND ETERNAL LIFE WITH OUR GOOD LORD
DOREEN DISALVATORE
left a message on September 10, 2018:
I AM SO VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR MOTHER'S LOSS. I WAS ONLY FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO BE IN HER COMPANY ON A FEW OCCASIONS. I WISH I HAD MORE TIME WITH HER. I AM HOPING THE LORD COMFORTS YOU DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME AND YOU CAN FIND PEACE. LET ME KNOW IF THERE IS ANYTHING I OR REMO CAN DO TO HELP EASE YOUR BURDENS.
DOREEN DISALVATORE
Joan Sickler
left a message on September 10, 2018:
My deepest condolences to her family.
Stacey Beard
left a message on September 10, 2018:
Alexis....True friends are a gift from God. I am so blessed to call you my friend. I will miss your funny laugh and smile. I know you in the presence of our Lord and Savior now - and at peace.
Nick and Zach - God loves you. Lean into Him at this time. ‘Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times in every way. The Lord be with you all.’ 2 Thessalonians 3:16
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Gerri Bukata-Hasapes
left a message on September 9, 2018:
So sorry to hear this. My condolences to the family. Alexis is in my prayers.
Kathy Grier
left a message on September 9, 2018:
Rest in peace my friend. Still so unbelievable that you're gone. Our little circle of friends has been broken. Although you'll be terribly missed, I know your burden and worries have been lifted and you are at peace.
God bless you. Love you ?
Rachel Misci
left a message on September 9, 2018:
Alexis wasn’t just my co worker. She was a second mother to me. She always knew how to lift my spirits up and anyone else’s for that matter. She was a kind caring loving woman and she will be truly missed. It’s still so shocking and heartbreaking. She was there for me when my grandfather passed earlier this year. I just can’t believe she’s gone, knowing I’ll never see her at work again... it’s never going to be the same. Nick and Zach, your mother was an amazing and loving woman. Prayers to her family. I love you Alexis. ❤️
Jess Lauriello
left a message on September 8, 2018:
Sending all of my love and support to Zach, Nick and Frank during this time. May Alexis guide them daily through life knowing she is there always. I will sincerely miss Alexis because she would light up a room when walking in. she was one of my “moms” at work and always made sure people were taken care of. we had many conversations that will stay close to my heart. She was loved by many and will stay in my heart forever.
Gina
left a message on September 8, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Gina lit a candle
Franne Weaver
left a message on September 8, 2018:
You were a lovely woman with whom I had the pleasure of living across the street from until I moved 12/03/03. I continued to run into Nick and Zach at school or Creanies but I missed seeing your sweet face. When I saw you at Shoprite when you first started working there I was so glad that I would be able to see you whenever I went food shopping. We would always hug and catch up on life. I’m so sorry for the loves of your life, your sons. Such a loss of a wonderful mother and person! Rest In Peace Alexis. You will be missed!
Donna, Andrew & Michael Gallagher
left a message on September 8, 2018:
Nick and Zach, We were saddened to hear about your mom. Your mom was a great lady and was always your #1 fan. Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
Cherie Buziak Santiago
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Nick and Zac, your mom will be tremendously missed and our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to you. Your mom loved and adored you both. I'll treasure the memories with you and her always.
Alexis was more than a cousin, she was a friend. She was creative, smart and witty. We laughed at the silliest things through our growing up years, weekends spent down the shore, sharing motherhood events with you boys - and life in general.
She truly will be missed - may the wonderful remembrances of her comfort you through this time. ...love you guys.
Diane and Charlie Durr
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Nick and Zack,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you on the passing of your mother. Keeping you in our prayers,
and trusting that
God will bring you comfort
in the days ahead.
May it help you
to know friends
are thinking of you
and remembering you
in their prayers.
Your dad and your aunt also have our warmest sympathy.
Diane and Charlie
Diane Sharkey
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Alexis was a wonderful friend who gave the best sincere hugs! She loved her boys more than anything! She is now in the comforts of God’s home with her parents who she adored! She truly will be missed but never forgotten!
Mike Panarello
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Alexis will be dearly missed by family and friends who cared about her
Cindy Spence
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Dear Nick, Zach, Paula, and Frank, Your mother, sister, and friend was so dear to me and was one of my closest friends. She loved all of you so much. We will miss her greatly. May God bless your hearts with His healing hand and give you peace that she is now in heaven.
Heaven. Alexis and I talked about heaven and salvation through Jesus Christ, and I am sure she placed her life in His hands. She is now safe in the arms of Jesus.
Terry Byrd
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Nick & Zack your Mom was a great lady and friend who will truly be missed. Rest in peace Alexis, you fought a good fight!! ??????
Maryann rich
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Alexis was such a kind person always had a kind word to say to u and knew if u just needed a hug I will miss her as a co worker and friend she loved her family so much and really missed her mom I no her mom was waiting for her with open arms RIP Alexis ??
Martina DelRocini
left a message on September 7, 2018:
Dear Nick, Zach & Frank,
Your Mom was a truly remarkable Mother & friend. Our hearts are heavy with sorrow for her loss but we have wonderful memories with you and her.
May the Lord help you through this very difficult time and may Her love for you always provide comfort through these difficult times.
Your friends always,
Jim, Marti, James & Nick DelRocini
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Lisa Hershock Wiley
left a message on September 6, 2018:
RIP Alexis....I grew up on the same street with the Dykan' s. Alexis is fondly remembered.
Carol Watts
left a message on September 6, 2018:
Alexis was a warm caring person that I enjoy working with.Her love for her sons was wonderful.I'll never forget one day we where so busy and Alexis had this piece of paper with stickers on it...She would give us one to put on our badge to brighten up our day....and it did.May she fine peace being with her Mom and may God Bless her for being a very kind person.
Steven Sonsini
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Steven Sonsini lit a candle
Lillian Watkins
left a message on September 6, 2018:
Heartbroken. I will remember Alexis as a mother who loved her boys and a woman with a big heart.She was so proud and beaming of pride when she talked about them. Her son Zachary came into work one day to visit and her smile was contagious . Alexis always was concerned for others, if you were having an off day or not feeling your best, she would pick that right up and ask you what is wrong and is there anything she could do for you. Always had time for you. Work will never be the same without her. I will deeply miss her and knowing she is reunited with her mom brings some peace to the sadness and loss. Rest In Peace Alexis.
Jessica Sequinot
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Jessica Sequinot lit a candle
Cheryl Hendricks
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Cheryl Hendricks lit a candle
Kelsea Zawoiski
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Kelsea Zawoiski lit a candle
Diane Sharkey
left a message on September 6, 2018:
In memory of Alexis K. Barker, Diane Sharkey lit a candle
Judy
left a message on September 6, 2018:
Alexis and I were coworkers I was very shocked and saden of her death she always had a kind word and witty sense of humor she will be missed my condolences to her family !
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